Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Lovey Dovey Tuesday : Walked Away Just Like That?

Sharpay : Aki, should I wish him?

Aki : Wish what? Fish? Who? Your dog??

Sharpay : Birthday, my Ex-boyfriend, who suddenly walked away from me just like that.. It's just....... I can't forget him..

Well, this question came from my cute friend, Sharpay not a long time ago.. a Walk away and Why.. Sound interesting?? Or, some of your old story comes in mind?? Well, me myself had something sound like this..


You might remember, I've once said, I'm a jerk?? Well, this is a part of the stories.. 

I've been knowing this girl since I'm 10, and I really like her (that time) when suddenly, I left that place and continue my studies (at 13) in another place which keep me 'not in touch' with her..

Then, after the SHIT HAPPEN (untold story and maybe never), I once again cross with her, and suddenly, we coupled!! Just like that.. Or maybe it's just I'm not used with 'no couple' life?? Well, along that time, I'm also in (so many) relationship with another girl.. I mean just for 2 or 3 other people besides her..

Then, after some time, I realized that, I'm not loving her, while she's ready to die for me?? That was fu*kin feeling.. So, I walked away from that relationship, just to make sure, she doesn't hurt more.. For at least, I'm not lying with her anymore.. Plus, I'm really sure that, we will not make it together..



Well, for me, She's just a replacement for somebody that I should damn fu*kin Love, for that time.. And I don't think it's fair for her.. So, a walked away before anything goes more worst (or I'm a dead meat)..

End of my story...

Sharpay : We had quarreling (a little) over some issues, and he just sms me that he need to walk away because he said, he doesn't want me to stress because of him..

Aki : Sounds familiar.. Yeah continue..

Sharpay : The reason is, I'm not that stress for him to walk away just like that.. It's just I need a better reason for why he walk away just like that..

Aki : Have you thought that U might be the replacement thingy, and suddenly he found out that U will not into him, so he release you out coz he doesn't want U to suffer more??

Well, a walk away is maybe a solution some guys find to end their relationship.. It's just they maybe have this situation :

  • their current partner isn't their taste
  • they don't find any reason on why they should continue that relationship
or
  • they just don't want to hurt their current partner to the most.. It's better for walk away..
Which is, after I think back what did I've done last few years, about that decision, it's just not a man decision.. Which I should be more gentlemen, ask the walk away and forgiveness from the girl, and tell the whole story..

Either they want it or not, they'll just have to accept that.. But at least, please don't just leave a text and walk away like that..


You've been forgiven or not? That's another story.. but at least, if you really have to leave her/him, please do that as you flirt her/him.. Please do that as how you worked out hard to get her/him.. and that would be fair.. FAIR ENOUGH!!..


Aki : Err, this topic isn't really my topic.. It's just because, I remember this old story.. T_T

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beaty said...

wah lama suda inda lovey dovey kan..he he he

Aki said...

BeatY : tu la.. he he he.. tahun ni,baru 2 lovey dovey tuesday sa.. ^_^.v..

♥Audeanor®♥ said...

Wawawa sound familiar oh Aki...not only guy, girl does walk away too if they feel that things not gonna work out or doesn't going anywhere :)

♥Audeanor®♥ said...

Wawawa sound familiar oh Aki...not only guy, girl does walk away too if they feel that things not gonna work out or doesn't going anywhere :)

nGiau said...

wahh sya tersentuh..sya rasa tu ex sya si tinggal sya pasal tu sbb ketiga..daripada trus tipu bgs si tinggal..hm let it be sj la

Kian Fai Koh said...

walao bulu tangan saya tegak! lol

Azeanthy Paiman said...

it's tell about yours right??

wow,so interesting!i hope i can finds a great solution whenever i come into this situation.

but actually,i'm not intends to leave and walk away from my bf.he just enough perfect to me=)

Nani said...

aki< makin best baca blog kau ni. napa kau makin campen ni? hehe...

Meitzeu said...

Ok. Sound so... so.... it's just life do happen such a thing.

mt

Charmaine said...

I think the guy should be honest la... don't say like he's leaving her for her own good lol

kay masingan said...

mmm...kena pula batang hidung saya...tapi memang begitulah hidup, ada masa kita tinggalkan seseorang itu tanpa sebab yang nyata. hanya kita saya yg tahu..:)

Gongju said...

I think last time my bf reason was the 3rd. He pity of me but he was not able to change the situation.But its ok bcoz we still together.understand each other more :)

Aemy Shamy said...

in my previous relationships, i was the one who walked away, frequently..& i never apologized to them..it's just that, i wasn't into the relationships, they're not right for me or maybe i wasn't right for them..im not sure whether they've forgave & forgot me..huuhuu.....
this time, i won't walk away & i hope my guy wouldn't walk away too..ever!

FiSh SzeHui said...

what? fish? LOL. anyway hope you dont repeat the same mistake in future ;)

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StellaClaire-Richard said...

walked away just like that?..hmm.. he's making a reason.. i mean make it up?..

SoLy SoLicious said...

i'll just walk away if he doesnt care bout me anymore... hehe

Merryn said...

walk away.. being in a rebound relationship will lead to nowhere.. so just walkaway..

Miki Aya said...

jalan. jgn x jalan. sy hari2 jalan p uni. :)

SimplySeoul said...

kenapa aku terasa sangat ni Aki? hehe. well i walk away too. i feel that i can't take it anymore, the quarrel, the misunderstanding, the fight and quarrel again. after years of being together i cannot help but seeing the flaw of my relationship more and more.
(am i just pouring my feeling in your comment box)
So to continue, i feel guilty (until now i could say) but somehow i feel that's the best way, which he don't agree.

Cherrie.Mia said...

ouch terkenang kisah lama. I've walked away from my previous relationship.

Eryati said...

bah..lama juga kau nda kasi updet ni blog ko aki...nah sy tag ko la...

http://mydaniaeryati.blogspot.com/2012/01/11-soalan11-jawapan.html

Armstrong said...

Cool story, bro. Hahaa jk.

Wow man, you got the balls for confessing such stories. I admire your braveness. And I agree with what you did there.

However, do realise that even if what you did is right... but the way or how you did it, it not right at all. It's not fair for her and I think that's why she still remembers and trying to get an explanation till now.

Whatever it is, dude. Ada suda ba ko punya kan. Concentrate sama dia la hehee.

Happy Thursday, buddy. Sorry nda tjumpa kita. Si Daniel bilang ko busy sama gf ko wakakaa. Sia pun nda mo kacau.

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